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I have a Master of Science in Nursing with an emphasis in Nursing Education, and I and a Certified Nurse Educator (CNE). I am an Assistant Professor of nursing at a local university. I have also worked in a variety of health care settings, including the emergency department, an out-patient interventional radiology unit, med-surg, and long-term care. Hopefully, nurses and nursing students alike can learn something new from, laugh at, or contribute to my own musings through this page.

Saturday, July 23, 2011

Entering Nursing Later in Life

A reader recently requested that I cover some tips on how to manage family and course-work for the student who is coming to nursing school later in life. Since this page is all for you, readers, I am happy to oblige!

Keep a Calendar

You will have tons of reading, homework assignments, clinical days, and meetings. On top of this, you will have appointments, family affairs, errands, etc., etc., etc. Begin with a calendar, preferably a small one you can keep with you. Many people choose an electronic calendar, such as one on a smart phone. However, a paper calendar can give you a quick glance of the entire month, rather than switching from day-to-day. On the other hand, your phone can alert you to important engagements. Whichever one you choose, start out by putting in the most important appointments, the ones you cannot or should not change. This will include class days, clinicals, and assignments for school. Additionally, you want to make sure you put in any doctor's appointments, dental appointments, etc. For the time being, nursing school will have to come first many times. You won't always have to sacrifice, but I recommend putting it high on your priority list. Which brings me to my next topic...


Family is Always Important, But...

...you want to succeed, so don't push nursing school to the side. I know this sounds terrible, so let me explain. I'm not asking you to forget about family and friends at all. However, I AM asking you to let your friends and family know how important nursing school is to you so that they won't push you to spend unrealistic amounts of time away from your studies. Nursing is intense (you will have lives in your hands upon graduation), so you have to know your stuff. This leads to my next point.

Create Study Time

Some people do well just by asking their family members to give them some time to study. However, this doesn't always work. Just ask my old classmate. She had 5 children, and when mom wasn't around (she was in her bedroom studying), they missed her so terribly that they would knock on her door until she let them in. Talk about distraction. Yes, love your children, and please don't ignore them. Spend good quality time with them. Actually build that time into your schedule. Write it on your calendar. But also schedule in study time. My old classmate put a sign on her door that let her children know that it was study time and that they were not to disturb her unless (insert emergencies here). This was difficult for her husband, however. He ended up having to deal with all of the "smaller" catastrophes.

Let Your Spouse Deal With It

Okay, so maybe not ALL of it. But nothing says your husband or wife can't handle some problems without your input. Many of you have handled "it" often enough that your spouse can take the wheel for the moment. My advice? Talk to your spouse. Let him or her know that you have to have so much time of uninterrupted studying, and ask if he or she would please handle things until study time is over. Yes, you will still contribute to the household, but don't let your spouse think he or she can't handle some things alone. Let your family know specifically what you need, and it will cut down on a LOT of frustration and irritation.

Use Study Time for Studying

This should go without saying, but I had to say it anyway. Why? Because some people have taken advantage of their alone time. If you want your family to respect your alone time, you must show them that you are doing just what you said you would do with that time. If it is for studying, then study. If it is for writing a paper, then write the paper. Another reason why this is so important is that you will realize later that you need more time, and you will be taking time away from your family that is NOT study time, so that you can study or write your paper. That isn't fair to your family. Everyone around you will have to make sacrifices, so please don't make it harder on them than you have to.

Study Tips

Find a nice, quiet, comfortable place to study. Make sure you have adequate lighting. You don't want to get a headache from trying to read in dim lighting. Take breaks often. If you're feeling "antsy", get up and walk around, go get something to drink, or just relax for 15 minutes. But then go back to your studies. You will have to have a lot of willpower, but you can do this!

Eat healthy foods and don't neglect your body. Your brain works much better on healthy foods and when your body is in good shape. So many people give up everything while they are in nursing school, but it just makes things harder. You may have to cut down on the time you exercise if you used to work out for hours at a time, but 30 minutes a day is adequate to help you stay in shape.

Get plenty of rest. Don't stay up until 4 am every morning. It will start to wear you down, and you will be irritable and forgetful. Those are two things you don't want to happen to you in nursing school.

Think about what is important for the nurse to know. Is it really important that you know what is happening on the cellular level? Probably not. Get a good general understanding of the disease process and what signs and symptoms to look for. Then know the usual meds given, nursing interventions, and what will tell you if the things you are doing are working to help the patient. That's all the nursing process is. Study by the nursing process and you have it!!

In Summary

The best thing you can do is sit down with your family and friends and tell them what is expected of you and what you need from them. DON'T neglect them, but make sure you take time for yourself as well. It take a lot of willpower, organization, time management, and inner strength, but with your family and friends behind you, you can make it through with support, caring, and understanding. Best wishes.

1 comment:

  1. This is a wonderful article. It doesn't really pertain to me directly as I do not have a family, but time contraints are universal. I am 24 years old and trying to get into nursing school. I'm sorry to see that you no longer write, and I'm posting this as a means to try to get in touch with you-
    your entry on "how to get accepted into nursing school" is what brought me here, and since you are already in the realm of education I was hoping for a few words of wisdom for someone who is trying to make it into a BSN program.

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