- Nurse JJ
- United States
- I have a Master of Science in Nursing with an emphasis in Nursing Education, and I and a Certified Nurse Educator (CNE). I am an Assistant Professor of nursing at a local university. I have also worked in a variety of health care settings, including the emergency department, an out-patient interventional radiology unit, med-surg, and long-term care. Hopefully, nurses and nursing students alike can learn something new from, laugh at, or contribute to my own musings through this page.
Tuesday, February 8, 2011
Being a Nursing Student
Nursing School is HARD!
Nursing school was the hardest thing I ever had to do...and I've been to graduate school! Grad school was a piece of cake compared to my undergraduate studies. In grad school, I made a 4.0. In my undergrad...well, I was lucky that I made B's and C's. It takes dedication, time, effort, loyalty, ingenuity, strength, courage, love, and patience. It takes all of that and then even more. Nursing school requires that students give more than they have ever given before. Students will work harder than they ever have before. I have had students who have fought in a WAR say that nursing school was harder than being in Iraq or Afghanistan. One student was even shot during war, and he felt that the skills check off during the first semester was tougher than that. Now THAT'S saying something.
Nursing School Requires Family Support
Being a nursing student means having minimal luxury time. That being said, family members really have to pitch in if the student is to be successful. Sometimes family members do not understand this. If you are a family member of a nursing student reading this, please....I beg of you...support the nursing student as much as humanly possible. The nursing student is working on little sleep, probably a ton of sugar and caffeine, and has the lives of his or her patients in hand. Only once you're in nursing school can you understand the depth and brevity of this. A nurse has the weight of the world on his or her shoulders. So much responsibility, so little time...
Nursing School Requires Time
Time is an issue. That is probably the understatement of the decade...or millennium, for that matter. Nursing students have to figure out how to read 100+ pages each week, do homework, get prepared for clinicals, take care of family, cook, clean, etc. It is tough, but manageable. It is wise to get the entire family in on the plan, so that everyone has a duty. The nursing student shouldn't have to worry about every single house matter that arises. A little (or a lot) of sacrifice is needed for nursing student success.
Nursing School Requires Patience
Nursing students often feel overwhelmed all of the time. When I've asked students the exact reasons they feel overwhelmed, I've been told, "I feel like I need to know everything right at the beginning." While this isn't 100% accurate, it has a certain truth to it. If we haven't gone over congestive heart failure in class, but you are taking care of a CHF patient, you are expected to know about that disease process. However, we don't expect you to be an expert. We know when you will learn that information. So be patient. Don't freak out because you haven't yet learned about diabetes. If you had to know everything the first week of school, we would NEVER have any nursing students. Everyone would run away screaming. Yes, do your very best...and even better. But don't stress over not knowing everything. You have years and years and years to learn...and you still won't learn it all. So don't get worked up about it.
Nursing School Requires Determination
I have told many nursing students that if they want it bad enough, they will sacrifice until they have it. I don't mean sacrificing a marriage or kids. I mean sacrificing fun times. I didn't have a life when I was in nursing school, and neither will you, most likely. If you do have a life, you may not do so well in nursing school, or you may not pass boards. Nursing school requires more than just being smart. You have to memorize and then apply what you know. Most students are used to memorizing...but the application is what's so difficult. How will this information help you to take care of your patient? THAT is the question.
Nursing School Requires Passion
If a student doesn't have a passion for learning, or a passion for people, nursing school will be even harder. Some people get into nursing for the money. Yes, while there is money in nursing, one has to really love people and caring for them in order to make a life-long career out of nursing.
My advice? If nursing is worth it to you, do the best you can. Make those sacrifices for two years (plus or minus). If it is not worth it, don't waste your time and effort. Best wishes to all of you!